Collars and Pearls

Something very dear to Sir's heart is knowing ones place and being correctly attired. 


This is one of his little quirks I love dearly. Ladies a powerful man in a well tailored suit is a wonderful thing. Sir is absolutely fastidious about which tie to wear and when - club tie for that meeting, University tie for the other meeting and so on and so on. I do wonder how his maids keep up. 


As always I have mulled things over and have realised the tie for men is a symbol of position, of rank of status and power. This got me thinking what about us poor Gurls? Do we have status in our collars? Can a sub gurl and her collar place her in a hierarchy?


From my experience as Sir's sub there are 3 main levels if you will regarding being collared and perhaps I have now discovered a fourth. 


The first level is hidden a level unspoken. Perhaps it is a remnant of centres gone by. 


The choker is a fashion accessory along with pearls and other heavier necklace and jewellery - what other purpose do they serve other than beautification and ownership. 

Even when women wed their costume forms part of their bondage. The lace the bridal under ware the corsetry the ornate chokers, garters. As pretty and as sensual as these items are they are all a form of ownership and bondage. 

This act and costumery continues into the honey moon and the more sexual nature of the costume a women is expected to wear. Perhaps this is way bridal fantasies are so strong within our community, along with maid fetish? 

Gurls I would strongly suggest your Master purchases a set of pearls they can be so much fun. 

Dressing correctly is vital and will help build your female persona - you should squeal with delight as you transition through the day and change outfits. I have be known to change as many as 6 times through out the day. 

Tabbitha exactly how many pearl necklaces have I given you know? Well I lose count. (Mr Black)